About
Hi, I'm Stefanie.
Certified Human Design Expert, mom of four, and wife of 19 years.
I'm a Certified Human Design Expert and a mom of four — ages 18, 17, 13 and 4. Completely, wonderfully, maddeningly different from each other.
For years I did what every good parent does. I read the books. I tried the approaches. I showed up with everything I had. And still there were moments I felt like I was failing, because what worked for one of them did nothing for another.
Human Design changed that. Not overnight, but genuinely. Understanding each of my kids — and myself — created more compassion, more trust and more healing than anything else I'd tried. Our home feels different now. We feel different.
It didn't just change the way I parent. It changed the way I understand the people I love. Instead of trying to change their behaviour, I learned to understand what was underneath it.
That's what I want for your family. I help parents finally understand the people they love most — why they're wired the way they are, how they need to be seen, and how to stop friction that has nothing to do with anyone failing and everything to do with design.
You don't need to try harder. You need the map.
Credentials
- Certified Human Design Expert
- Mom of four — 18, 17, 13 and 4
- Host of the Family By Design podcast
- Readings for individuals, couples and whole families
How I work
Practical, not theoretical
You don't need to learn the system. You need someone to show you what your chart is already telling you.
Nobody is the problem
Friction at home is usually a design mismatch, not a person doing it wrong.
The whole family
It works best when everyone under the roof is understood, not just the child you're worried about.