When You Outgrow the Version of Success You Were Told to Want

When You Outgrow the Version of Success You Were Told to Want

Let me ask you something…
Have you ever sat in a moment where, technically, everything in your life should feel like a win — and yet something inside you whispers, “This isn’t it”?

You’re successful on paper.
You’re doing everything you were told would make you happy.
But if you’re being really honest with yourself…

You feel disconnected.
Unfulfilled.
Like you’re playing a part in someone else’s story — and wondering when yours gets to begin.

This episode is for you.

✨ [My personal story — The Crack Open Moment]

I remember sitting on the other side of burnout…
On the other side of 12-hour days, smiling on the outside, people-pleasing to the point I couldn’t even recognize my own voice anymore.
And yet, I was “doing it right.”

I had been successful in network marketing for over a decade.
I was coaching, leading, building, parenting — checking every box.

But I was exhausted from living a life built from other people’s blueprints.

And when I lost my dad — everything cracked open.
Grief doesn’t just shatter your heart… it shatters your illusions.
It made me stop pretending.
And for the first time, I asked myself:

What if the life I built isn’t mine

✨ [The Shift — Enter Human Design]

That was the moment I found Human Design.
Or maybe — it found me.

Human Design didn’t give me new rules to follow.
It gave me permission to unlearn all the ones that weren’t mine.

It showed me why I worked the way I did.
Why I could never sustain hustle culture.
Why rest made me feel guilty.
Why I questioned myself, even when my gut was screaming yes.
Why I kept trying to mold myself into versions of leadership that looked good but felt wrong.

And suddenly… I saw myself.
Not the “me” shaped by childhood conditioning.
Not the “me” trained to people-please, perform, and power through.
But the version of me who had always been there — waiting to be remembered.

If you’re nodding right now, or maybe even holding back tears, I want you to hear this:

You are not broken.

You have not failed.
You’ve just been trying to succeed in a system that wasn’t designed for your energy, your gifts, your voice.

You weren’t made to follow a one-size-fits-all path.
You were designed to lead your own.

Whether you’re a business owner, a team leader, a parent, or just someone trying to feel whole again — your Human Design can show you the way back to yourself.

And not the watered-down, people-pleasing version.

The magnetic, grounded, lit-up version you were born to be.

This is why I do this work.
Because I know what it feels like to lose yourself — and I know what it takes to come home again.

My own journey through the Locks and Keys in my chart taught me that:

• Lock 10 — I’m here to lead by being fully, unapologetically me
  
  

• Lock 1 — That my voice and creative expression aren’t just allowed — they’re necessary
  
  

• Key 55 — That emotional freedom is my compass
  
  

• Key 59 — That depth and connection require truth
  
  

• Key 34 — That my power comes when I honor my sacral energy
  
  

• Key 20 — That the now is where my wisdom lives
  
  

And now — I help other women remember who they were before the world told them who to be.

So if you’ve outgrown the version of success they sold you…
If you’ve built a life that looks good but doesn’t feel like yours…
If you’re ready to finally stop shrinking and start leading…

Then this podcast is for you.

In this space, we’re not here to fix you.
We’re here to unlearn everything that told you you needed fixing in the first place.

You are not behind.
You are not too much.
You are right on time to remember who you are.

Let’s unlearn the noise.
Let’s decode your design.
Let’s rebuild from the inside out.

Because you — exactly as you are — were always the plan.