The Truth About Social Media and Your Design
Welcome back. Today I want to have a real conversation… one that might feel a little edgy, especially if you’ve built your business like I did: online, on social media, constantly “showing up.”
This episode is called “The Truth About Why I’m Posting Less (and Growing More),” and I’m going to walk you through not just what I’m doing differently, but why it took me so long to admit that it wasn’t working for me anymore.
🧠 Part 1: The Shift I’m Making.. And Why
I used to think that success looked like consistency. Like always having something to post. Like having a “content calendar” that mapped out the next 30 days. Like making sure my face and voice and message were constantly being seen.
And that worked. Until it didn’t.
Because even though I built a multi-six-figure brand, I started noticing the cost:
I felt drained.
I felt performative.
I was measuring my worth by views and saves instead of depth and alignment.
And it hit me: I wasn’t out of alignment with success. I was out of alignment with myself.
🔑 Part 2: My Human Design Helped Me See It
I’m a 3/5 Manifesting Generator with Sacral Authority, and everything in my design was whispering:
“This isn’t how your energy wants to work.”
Here’s what that means:
My 3/5 Profile means I’m here to try, fail, refine and lead from experience, not perfection. So curated content felt fake.
As an MG, I move fast when it’s right, but I was burning energy on content I didn’t even feel turned on by.
With Sacral Authority, I’m here to respond from my gut not push through a strategy.
And my Valleys Environment? I’m built for depth, not noise. Social was loud.
Add in my Vibe of Tribe 1: I’m not here for the masses. I’m here for the right people the ones who feel my energy and say “this is it.”
And none of that aligned with the 24/7 content hamster wheel.
🚨 Part 3: The Lie We’ve Been Sold
Let’s be honest: we’ve been taught a lie.
We’ve been told:
“You have to post daily or you’ll be forgotten.”
“Your value is in your visibility.”
“If you’re not on social, you don’t have a business.”
But I’m calling BS. Because I know too many brilliant people who are burning out in the name of algorithms. Too many geniuses stuck editing Reels instead of refining offers.
Visibility ≠ viability.
Performance ≠ prosperity.
Consistency ≠ alignment.
And AI is only speeding this up. Anyone can create content now , but not everyone can transmit truth.
🌿 Part 4: What I’m Doing Instead
So here’s what I’m choosing now:
✨ Depth over daily posts
🎙️ Podcasting instead of pushing out content for the algorithm
💌 Email… where I can tell real stories, not chase trends
🤝 Magnetic Business Audits, because real resonance is better than reach
I’m still showing up. Just differently.
From a place of desire, not demand.
From my design, not someone else’s blueprint.
🌀 Part 5: If You Feel This Too…
If you’re listening to this and thinking, “Oh my gosh, I thought it was just me,” it’s not.
You’re not lazy.
You’re not inconsistent.
You’re not “bad at marketing.”
You’re likely just building in a way that was never meant for you.
And if your body is begging you to stop … it’s because it knows something your mind hasn’t caught up to yet.
🎯 Final Invitation
If you want support building your business in a way that fits using your Human Design to guide your niche, your message, your offers, your marketing rhythm…. let’s talk. HERE!
I’m offering free Magnetic Business Audits where we explore what’s actually aligned for you and how to build a business that feels like you.
Until then, go trust your energy.
It’s always been the strategy.
